“It’s Not Over Yet”
Britta Driessen was born on September 10, 1909 in Chicago. Her parents were Valdis Ozolinsh, an immigrant from Latvia, and Ebba Ahlstrom, an immigrant from Sweden. Valdis made his way to America alone, and Ebba came across the ocean to live with her sister, who had found work in Chicago. It is not certain how Valdis and Ebba met, but is thought to have been at a dance. They began courting and eventually married. Valdis worked making wooden boxes, and in the early days of their marriage, Ebba cleaned the offices of the gas company in the evenings. After she gave birth to their only child, Britta, however, she stayed home to care for her.
The little family lived on the south side, near 5400 S. Kedzie, and Britta was allowed to go to high school at Harrison High. She then went on to attend Morton Jr. College for two years, as well. While she was taking classes there, she worked in the evenings as a telephone operator for the phone company. Valdis and Ebba were extremely proud of their daughter when she finally graduated and began working as a secretary at Western Electric.
Britta very much enjoyed her job as a secretary and made many friends. One evening, the company held a dance for the employees, and Britta of course attended. She was surprised when one of the supervisors, Arthur Driessen, asked if he could walk her home. She said yes, and she even remembers what they talked about that night. He told her many amusing stories of growing up in Chicago with five siblings and how his grandparents had emigrated from Holland. When they reached her front door, he asked if she would like to have dinner with him some evening. Britta accepted, and the two began dating. They eventually married in 1938.
Britta continued working after their marriage, but not long after, there was a reorganization at Western Electric, and Britta was somehow transferred into Arthur’s division. Since there was a company rule which prevented family members working for other family members, Britta saw no choice but to resign. She stayed home and became a housewife, which Arthur seemed to prefer, anyway. They lived in the upstairs apartment above Valdis and Ebba, but when her parents decided to sell the building, she and Arthur decided to buy their own place in Park Ridge.
When the war broke out, Britta took over her cousin’s job at the Café Bohemia. It was supposed to be a temporary job in the office, but it stretched on for many years. She and Arthur never had any children, so it seemed to make sense at the time, especially as Britta enjoyed working. She also loved crocheting, making hook rugs, reading, and music. At one point, she tried taking piano lessons at one point, but she didn’t have enough time to practice, so she quit. She also loved bowling, and she and Arthur joined many leagues over the years. She was very active in the ladies auxiliary of the Elks, and served on the board of various charitable organizations.
When Arthur finally retired from Western Electric, he had to persuade Britta to quit work as well so that they could travel. She gave it up, reluctantly at first, but then threw herself into traveling. Together they went all over Europe and the United States, including Hawaii and Alaska, and even took a cruise.
Arthur and Britta had many happy years together until he died in the late 1980’s. Britta decided to sell the house and move into a retirement community, where she was able to live independently for about eight years. Then one day about a month ago, she woke up to find she couldn’t move her legs and called an ambulance. She was hospitalized for several weeks and then discharged to a nursing home for physical therapy and may yet go back to her home. Britta is a very patient, sweet woman who appears eager to please, but she has not completely acclimated to her new surroundings. She fully believes she is going to return home and concentrates on her physical therapy, often practicing walking with a walker up and down the hallways. “I’ve had a good life so far,” she says, “but it’s not over yet.”
(Originally written: August 1994)